DO YOU KEEP A BOX SCORE ON YOURSELF?
Scripture: Matthew 7:
1-5
Life has frequently been likened to a game. There are many
analogies: goals, rules, judges, scorekeepers, training, teammates, captains, spectators,
opponents, coaches, timekeepers, and trophies.
America's
national pastime is baseball. In England
and Australia
it is cricket or Rugby.
Canada
goes strongly for hockey and curling. Every country has its favorite sport or
popular game. All are based on competition governed by certain rules and judged
by qualified referees.
Today's sermon has but one essential truth to proclaim. It
is fashioned on the framework of baseball. It might have been illustrated as
well by football, cricket, soccer, hockey, or basketball.
Here is the question of the theme, "Do You Keep a Box
Score on Yourself?" Just what is
the import of this pertinent inquiry?
A box score is a scheme used by the official record keeper
to chart runs, hits, and errors of both teams. Hits and runs are assets;
errors, liabilities. It is the prerogative of the scorekeeper to decide on each
play, whether the batter should be given a hit and thus improve his batting
average or the fielder an error, which lowers his fielding record. Over a full
season's play a high batting or fielding average means a promotion, while a low
average carries with it a demotion. The record is important. It is in the book
and cannot be changed.
In baseball the scorekeeper is an appointed official and
must be neutral and impartial. In
life, too, God is keeping the record, which is just and
true.
In baseball the sour notes come when the umpires' decisions
are questioned by partisan,
partial fans. Also the scorekeeper
is criticized for calling an error against a certain player when that player's
friends insist on a hit. On this same play the opposing partisan fans would
applaud the scorekeeper's recording of an error. Partisanship, favoritism,
partiality, and prejudice do not make for fair play and justice. That is why
the officials must be absolutely neutral and completely impartial to teams and
players.
In life it is a favorite pastime to keep a box score on
others. We favor our friends and
slander our enemies. One of humanity's weaknesses is to be
able to see nothing bad in those we like and nothing good in those we dislike.
So our box score is usually inaccurate because it is colored by prejudice and
distorted by friendship and enmity.
Another strange quirk of human nature is the ease with which
we find errors in others and
overlook the same in ourselves. So we are very busy filling
in the box score of others. We tend to reduce their hits and increase their
errors. In other words, we magnify the liabilities and minimize the assets. But
with ourselves we increase the home runs and decrease or eliminate the errors;
i.e., we magnify our good points and minimize our bad traits.
It is very easy to see faults in others and at the same time
possess these same faults
ourselves and to a greater degree.
If we could see ourselves as others see us, we would be less inclined to
criticize others. Jesus accentuated this human tendency when in His Sermon on
the Mount He
said:
Judge not, that ye be not judged.
For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged; and
with what measure ye mete, it
shall be measured to you again.
And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's
eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the
mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own
eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's
eye (Matt. 7: 1-5).
In other words, if your own box score is full of errors, why
criticize your brother for one
little error? First clean up your
own box score before you fill your brother's full of errors.
There is also one other thing you should remember -- you are
not the official scorekeeper.
You are only self-appointed. What you write does not affect
the official record. God keeps the score and He lists all hits, runs, and
errors. He misses none that should be included and He adds none that should be
omitted. It is a relief and a comfort not to have to keep a box score on
anybody else. And we do not even have to keep it on ourselves. Our
responsibility is to make the hits, score the runs, and avoid making errors. We
make the record, God fills in the box score.
We must guard against the tendency to see errors and be
blind to good plays. Have you
ever driven along the highway past a farm and noticed a
flock of sheep when somebody exclaims, "Oh, look at the black sheep!"
There were ninety-nine white ones. So we put one black sheep in our box score
and fail to write ninety-nine white.
So it is in life, it is easy to find the black. Why not look
for the white?
Better still, why not turn your gaze from without to within
and check your own hits, runs,
and errors honestly? Record your
own box score -- it might not make others look so bad.
Sheridan offered
significant advice when he said, "Believe that story false that ought not
to be true."
In other words, don't charge up an error against a player
who should not make such a
misplay -- not until it is proved to be an error. Keep his
box score clean. Let God, the Official Scorer, fill it in.
Shakespeare uttered a sublime truth when he said:
"It is pretty safe to presume that about all the
glaring effects or petty weaknesses which we are looking for in others may be
found in ourselves, with a little careful investigation.
"Go to your bosom, knock there and ask your heart what
it doth know that is like my
brother's fault; if it confess a natural guiltiness, such as
his is, let it not sound a thought upon your tongue against my brother."
The moral is, don't keep a box score on others until your
own is free from errors. And even then, let God do it.
So in the game of life make hits, knock home runs, win the
game, make as few errors as
possible. Let God, the Official
Scorer, keep the box score on yourself and others.